Showing posts with label kindness. Show all posts
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Thursday, August 21, 2025

America's nicest judge and devout Catholic dead at 88

 

Frank Caprio, famed judge known for showing mercy, dies at 88

Judge Frank Caprio served for decades as chief municipal judge in Providence, Rhode Island. | Credit: StephanieRPereira, CC BY-SA 4.0, via Wikimedia Commons


By Amira Abuzeid

Frank Caprio, who served as a Providence, Rhode Island, municipal court judge for nearly 40 years and came to be known as “America’s nicest judge,” passed away on Aug. 20 from pancreatic cancer.

“Beloved for his compassion, humility, and unwavering belief in the goodness of people, Judge Caprio touched the lives of millions through his work in the courtroom and beyond. His warmth, humor, and kindness left an indelible mark on all who knew him,” read a statement posted on his official Facebook page.

Rhode Island Gov. Dan McKee ordered flags in the state to be flown at half staff at all state agencies and buildings until the day of Caprio’s internment, and he also asked Rhode Island residents to lower their flags out of respect.

Caprio gained worldwide fame for a lenient judicial style that blended justice, extreme empathy, and mercy when his courtroom was televised in a program called “Caught in Providence.” The program began in 1999 and went viral in 2017, achieving hundreds of millions of views since then. The show was nominated for a Daytime Emmy Award in 2021 and has a YouTube channel with nearly 3 million subscribers.When handing down judgments for low-level offenses like parking and speeding tickets, Caprio told EWTN News correspondent Colm Flynn on “EWTN News In Depth” in February that he always kept in mind something his father, a hardworking Italian immigrant with a fifth-grade education, had impressed upon him: “What might seem like a small fine to some was something that many couldn’t afford.”

“That’s why I would always inquire: ‘Tell me a little bit about what’s going on in your life,’” Caprio said.

“Your case is dismissed” became Caprio’s signature phrase.

When other judges asked him why he would be so lenient, he said: “I would just place myself in the shoes of the person before me.” 

Caprio dismissed the case of a 96-year-old man, Victor, who had an outstanding unpaid speeding ticket, the first one in his life, which he received while taking his disabled son to a doctor’s appointment. Four years later, Caprio celebrated the man’s 100th birthday with him.

“Watching my father, I learned how to treat people with respect and dignity,” Caprio said.

Early life and education

Caprio was born in 1936 in Providence, Rhode Island, the second of three sons of Italian immigrants Antonio Caprio and Filomena Caprio, who emigrated from Naples. 

Caprio attended Providence public schools, winning a state title in wrestling when he attended Central High School, and later graduating from Providence College in 1958. While teaching American government at Hope High School, he pursued a law degree at Suffolk University School of Law, attending night classes and passing the bar in 1965. He became a judge in 1985 and served until his retirement in 2023.

Caprio said that his father, a fruit peddler and milkman, used to wake him and his brothers at 4 a.m. to accompany him on his milk delivery rounds. 

“I had the most privileged childhood you could imagine,” Caprio told Flynn. “I had the privilege of being brought up poor.”

He described living in a “cold water flat,” an apartment that had no hot water. 

Caprio’s father told his sons if they “didn’t want to stay on this milk cart for the rest of your life, you better stay in school.” 

One day when he was around 12 years old, Caprio said, his father put his hand on his shoulder and said: “You’re going to be a lawyer someday, and you can’t charge poor people like us.”

The elder Caprio showed his sons how to be compassionate even as a poor milkman, refusing to stop milk deliveries when customers could not pay.

Caprio’s father continued to be a powerful presence in his life even after he became a judge. On his first day on the bench, Caprio required a belligerent, rude woman with multiple parking tickets to pay the full amount she owed and impounded her car. At the end of the day, he asked his father, who had been watching: “How’d I do?” 

His father told him he was too harsh with the woman, even if she did have a bad attitude. He told him she had three kids and might not be able to feed them that night.

“Because you’re in a position of power doesn’t mean you have to use it against people who don’t have power,” Caprio’s father said to him.

It was a lesson he would never forget.

“I was just trying to be decent with everyone. I never sat on the bench and thought I was better than anyone else or that I was superior to them in any way,” Caprio told Flynn.

Cancer diagnosis

Caprio was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in 2023. 

A devout Catholic, Caprio’s faith sustained him during a pilgrimage to Lourdes, France, in 2024, where he sang “Ave Maria” at the grotto, describing it as a profound spiritual moment.

He told Flynn he hoped his fans would pray for him after his cancer diagnosis because “I have a deep and abiding faith in the Catholic Church, in Jesus, in the power of prayer.” He said his faith in God and the prayer from all his fans kept him going.

He asked for prayers again on Aug. 19, posting a video on Facebook. He passed away the next day.

Career, legacy, and honors

Caprio, a Democrat, served on the Providence City Council for six years, from 1962 to 1968, and lost the general election for Rhode Island attorney general in 1970. He served as a delegate for five Democratic National Conventions. Caprio also served in the Rhode Island Army National Guard.

He was actively involved in several community organizations, including the Boys Town of Italy and the Rhode Island Food Bank. He co-chaired the Rhode Island Statue of Liberty Foundation, raising funds for the restoration of the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island. Additionally, he served on the Rhode Island Board of Regents for Elementary and Secondary Education. Caprio was also a member of the President’s Council at Providence College.

At Suffolk University School of Law, Caprio established the Antonio “Tup” Caprio Scholarship Fund, named after his father, to support Rhode Island students dedicated to enhancing access to legal services in the state’s poor, urban neighborhoods. Caprio also created scholarships at Providence College, Suffolk Law School, and for Central High School graduates, all honoring his father’s legacy.

Caprio received two honorary doctorates and a Producer’s Circle Award at the Rhode Island International Film Festival along with the Daytime Emmy nomination. His former municipal courtroom was renamed “The Chief Judge Frank Caprio Courtroom” in 2023. 

An avid Boston Red Sox fan, Caprio threw the ceremonial first pitch at Fenway Park in 2019.

In 2025 he published his memoir, “Compassion in the Court: Life-Changing Stories from America’s Nicest Judge.”

Caprio is survived by his wife of 60 years, Joyce, with whom he had five children: Frank T. Caprio, David Caprio, Marissa Pesce, John Caprio, and Paul Caprio. The couple had seven grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.

He described living in a “cold water flat,” an apartment that had no hot water. 

Caprio’s father told his sons if they “didn’t want to stay on this milk cart for the rest of your life, you better stay in school.” 

One day when he was around 12 years old, Caprio said, his father put his hand on his shoulder and said: “You’re going to be a lawyer someday, and you can’t charge poor people like us.”

The elder Caprio showed his sons how to be compassionate even as a poor milkman, refusing to stop milk deliveries when customers could not pay.

Caprio’s father continued to be a powerful presence in his life even after he became a judge. On his first day on the bench, Caprio required a belligerent, rude woman with multiple parking tickets to pay the full amount she owed and impounded her car. At the end of the day, he asked his father, who had been watching: “How’d I do?” 

His father told him he was too harsh with the woman, even if she did have a bad attitude. He told him she had three kids and might not be able to feed them that night.

“Because you’re in a position of power doesn’t mean you have to use it against people who don’t have power,” Caprio’s father said to him.

It was a lesson he would never forget.

“I was just trying to be decent with everyone. I never sat on the bench and thought I was better than anyone else or that I was superior to them in any way,” Caprio told Flynn.

Cancer diagnosis

Caprio was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in 2023. 

A devout Catholic, Caprio’s faith sustained him during a pilgrimage to Lourdes, France, in 2024, where he sang “Ave Maria” at the grotto, describing it as a profound spiritual moment.

He told Flynn he hoped his fans would pray for him after his cancer diagnosis because “I have a deep and abiding faith in the Catholic Church, in Jesus, in the power of prayer.” He said his faith in God and the prayer from all his fans kept him going.

He asked for prayers again on Aug. 19, posting a video on Facebook. He passed away the next day.

Career, legacy, and honors

Caprio, a Democrat, served on the Providence City Council for six years, from 1962 to 1968, and lost the general election for Rhode Island attorney general in 1970. He served as a delegate for five Democratic National Conventions. Caprio also served in the Rhode Island Army National Guard.

He was actively involved in several community organizations, including the Boys Town of Italy and the Rhode Island Food Bank. He co-chaired the Rhode Island Statue of Liberty Foundation, raising funds for the restoration of the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island. Additionally, he served on the Rhode Island Board of Regents for Elementary and Secondary Education. Caprio was also a member of the President’s Council at Providence College.

At Suffolk University School of Law, Caprio established the Antonio “Tup” Caprio Scholarship Fund, named after his father, to support Rhode Island students dedicated to enhancing access to legal services in the state’s poor, urban neighborhoods. Caprio also created scholarships at Providence College, Suffolk Law School, and for Central High School graduates, all honoring his father’s legacy.

Caprio received two honorary doctorates and a Producer’s Circle Award at the Rhode Island International Film Festival along with the Daytime Emmy nomination. His former municipal courtroom was renamed “The Chief Judge Frank Caprio Courtroom” in 2023. 

An avid Boston Red Sox fan, Caprio threw the ceremonial first pitch at Fenway Park in 2019.

In 2025 he published his memoir, “Compassion in the Court: Life-Changing Stories from America’s Nicest Judge.”

Caprio is survived by his wife of 60 years, Joyce, with whom he had five children: Frank T. Caprio, David Caprio, Marissa Pesce, John Caprio, and Paul Caprio. The couple had seven grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.

Tuesday, March 24, 2020

Early on Day 2 of the Quarantine and lots of thoughts

First, I want to thank the dozens upon dozens of prayers and good wishes from many of you who follow my blog and my FB page.  Wendy and I are just waiting, still very hopeful for good test results come Friday.  Wendy is sleeping comfortably(yes it's 11:30 in the morning) but she was up late.  This morning her fever appears to be close to normal and she has not been coughing during her time of sleep.  I think her C-Pap machine is very helpful when you have things like coughs or sinus issues.  Wendy is taking a medication prescribed by her doctor that many of us take when we have a bad cold or a sinus infection.  To me, it appears to be helping.

Her time home is both a matter of precaution and healing.  Whatever this is, and we pray it is not Covid-19, it has her down and out.  For me, my time home is prudent and proper, it is what every medical professional recommends as well as the CDC.  So by staying home I am trying to do my part to not get anyone else sick, particularly if Wendy's tests come back positive.  Again, we pray this not be the case.

I know this, for me, who really craves people, this is quite the sacrifice.  Everything in me wants to get up, go to work, follow my routine, head over to the church for Bible Study or Mass or Adoration and then drive up to Rayburn to be with the men of the St. Peter's Catholic Community of Rayburn Correctional.  All these things I know I can not do; not now.  So I cling to the hope that I will be doing all of this and more as soon as it is prudent and safe and I can be ruled out as a risk.  For me, I do feel fine but my thoughts are occupied by Wendy's illness and pending tests results.

You know in this time of both a medical and a financial crisis I am amazed at the spirit of the people of our community, state and nation and of people of faith.  For the Catholic I predict that a robust return to Mass and the Sacraments awaits and all houses of worship will see an uptick in participation.  I see in all this online ministry a great hunger from the people who long to be gathered in worship.  For the Catholic there appears to be a great desire to reunite with the Eucharist again.  For now we watch online and we pray sincerely a prayer of Spiritual Communion.  I applaud the efforts of ministers, Priests, pastors, Deacons, staff and others who are keeping us connected and working so hard and praying for and with us.

When this subsides, and how I wish subsiding was sooner than later, maybe we too will be a changed people.  I know for me there will be a better appreciation for doctors, specialists, nurses and pharmacists as well as all who work to keep our health care system running, even during a medical crisis.  I also believe there will be an increase in appreciation for teachers, grocers, truck drivers, first responders and small business owners.  I hope this will happen and be so very evident.  And maybe we will just all be more appreciative of one another and learn what kindness and compassion looks like, even in a post pandemic world.

I don't mind telling you that for me this time, even before Wendy's illness, has been a time of great growth in relationship with God.  I realize how much we are dependent on God and how He is always there for us no matter what.  Many of us depend on the formalities of worship but this crisis has helped us, in my humble opinion, to pray always and anywhere; which many do always.

So continue to soldier on everyone and pray for one another, demonstrate kindness and compassion.  Yes I will ask you to continue to pray for Wendy both in her recovery and a negative test results soon.

God Bless Us All!

Monday, January 14, 2019

A die-hard Saints fan, blessed Rosary beads and the promise of prayer and it touched the heart of Drew Brees and Jermon Bushrod

Meet the die-hard Saints fan who gifted Drew Brees blessed rosary beads

Sammy Guillot, 62, gives Drew Brees blessed rosary beads Jan. 13 before the Saints playoff game against the Philadelphia Eagles. He also gave him beads before the Saints 2009 Super Bowl run.
Sammy Guillot, 62, gives Drew Brees blessed rosary beads Jan. 13 before the Saints playoff game against the Philadelphia Eagles. He also gave him beads before the Saints 2009 Super Bowl run. (Sammy Guillot)
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Sammy Guillot woke up Sunday morning (Jan. 13) and attended the 7:30 a.m. Mass at St. John the Evangelist Church in Plaquemine like he does every Sunday. Only this time, Guillot had another Saint on his mind.
After Mass was over, Guillot pulled the priest aside and handed him two sets of rosary beads with a request. He needed these beads to be blessed.
Six hours later, as Drew Brees made his way along the Mercedes-Benz Superdome field walls signing autographs before pre-game warmups, Guillot stopped him.
The 62-year-old hairstylist placed one set of the beads in Brees’ hand and pulled him in to tell him why he was giving them to him.
Nine years ago, Brees was leaving the Superdome after a Week 16 overtime loss to the Tampa Bay Buccaneers when Guillot stopped Brees to give him some beads blessed for the Saints.
“Thank you, man,” Brees told him at the time. “I really appreciate that. You don’t know how much that means to me.”
Just over a month later, the Saints were Super Bowl champs.
It stood out to Brees, who referenced the moment in a 2012 ESPN the Magazine story Guillot still holds on to.
Guillot is a superstitious man, something the routine-oriented Brees, of all people, would understand. With the Saints again holding the No. 1 seed as they work toward another title, he went back to what worked.
“I did it then, I’m gonna do it now so we can carry on this tradition,” Guillot said.
Guillot’s been coming to the Superdome since Bum Phillips’ first season coaching the Saints in 1981. He started out sitting at the top of the terrace level with $12 tickets, moved to the end zone 20 rows up, then was in the first row by the tunnel and now is in the front row of section 132 — field level, in the corner.
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He’s been watching through the worst of times, seeing losing seasons and waiting 19 years to see a playoff win. Then, something happened.
“When Sean Payton and Drew came here, everything changed,” he said.
He has watched as the Saints won a Super Bowl and have gone through a run of success, and he’s been the guy showing up the moment the doors open for every game. He said he’s missed no more than one hand’s worth of games since 1981, and only because he was sick or on vacation.
And for each of those games, he’s seen Brees go up and down the wall signing anything and everything for fans. He claims he has more autographs from Brees than anyone on Earth. Guillot’s daughter, Courtland Pruitt, said Brees takes her phone sometimes to take selfies with her and daughter, Anna Claire.
“He’s a great football player,” Guillot said. “He’s a better human being. I’m telling you, he’s a great guy.”
But Guillot had two sets of rosary beads blessed. The other was for offensive lineman Jermon Bushrod.
Guillot and Bushrod go back to Bushrod’s rookie season in 2007, when Bushrod was a fourth-round pick in street clothes who played in only three games his first two years. Guillot started talking to him, and it became a weekly routine.
Bushrod lit up when asked about Guillot. He said they talk about family and football, and he joked Guillot probably has most of his gloves and hats.
“I look for him every time I come off the field, just a familiar face,” Bushrod said.
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Bushrod’s daughter, Jordyn Lynn, died Oct. 18 just a week after being born. Guillot spoke to him Sunday before the game and gave him his beads. Bushrod started to choke up.
“He told me he was continuing to pray for me, pray for my family, because of my daughter who is blessed in heaven, so he gave me those rosary beads before the game,” Bushrod said. “So, it’s a cool little relationship.”
At the end of the 2012 season, when Bushrod knew his contract was up and he was leaving, he sought out Guillot in the stands.
“Sam, let me tell you something,” he said. "It’s been nice knowing you. My contract’s gonna expire shortly. It’s a business. I don’t know where I’m gonna be at, but when I come back here, I know where you’re at.”
Guillot made sure to let him know what he accomplished.
“Look at it like this,” Guillot recalls telling him. “You came here, you was nobody. You became a starter. You became a Pro-Bowler. You got a Super Bowl ring. You’ve done it all. Wherever you go, you’re gonna do well.”
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After nearly 40 years of coming to Saints games, Guillot thinks he has a good chance at seeing a second Super Bowl run. After beating the Eagles 20-14 on Sunday, the Saints face the Los Angeles Rams in the NFC Championship Game next week.
They are one game away from appearing in the Super Bowl again, and Guillot has one more game in the Superdome this season.
Until then, he’s proudly showing off his Saints hat with two Brees autographs on it. He doesn’t know what will happen in the coming weeks, but he thinks God is in the Saints' corner.
“The good Lord brought us a long way, and he’s got us a ring,” Guillot said. “Might happen again this year.”