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Thursday, March 12, 2026

Pope Leo XIV: Look to the Holy Family as model of hospitality

 

Pope Leo XIV addresses participants in the "Cathedra of Hospitality"Pope Leo XIV addresses participants in the "Cathedra of Hospitality"  (@Vatican Media)

Pope Leo XIV: Learn hospitality from St. Joseph and Holy Family

Pope Leo XIV calls on communities to look to the Holy Family of Nazareth to rediscover their calling to welcome others and learn to walk the path of service, as he addressed participants in the "Cathedra of Hospitality."

By Deborah Castellano Lubov

“I encourage you to be educators in hospitality,” Pope Leo XIV said on Thursday in the Vatican when addressing participants in the “Cathedra of Hospitality,” a cultural and educational event now in its fourth edition, held in Sacrofano, a town north of Rome.

Organized by movements and Third Sector organizations in collaboration with Rome’s Pontifical Lateran University, the event provides spaces for dialogue and reflection on current issues. This year, the theme was “Youth and the Church: Hospitality that fosters belonging.”

In his remarks, the Holy Father offered reflections on the theme addressed by the “Cathedra." The Pope acknowledged that the days of reflection were animated by the awareness that the Christian vocation is oriented toward generating communion among people.

With this in mind, the Pope observed that communion arises from the ability to welcome others by offering listening, hospitality, and assistance.

The grace of an encounter

Pope Leo XIV said that at the heart of every authentic welcome, there is a relationship born from the grace of an encounter. He explained that it is precisely within this dynamic of encounter that the decision to dedicate the fourth edition of the “Cathedra” to young people is situated.

“In a time marked by profound cultural and social transformations,” the Pope said, “young people, who are naturally the future of society and of the Church, already constitute its living and generative present.”

The Holy Father noted that their questions and concerns invite us to renew the style of our relationships.

“Welcoming young people means, first of all,” Pope Leo said, “listening to their voices, meeting their gaze, and recognizing that, in their lives and in their languages, the Spirit continues to act and to suggest renewed paths of presence and care.”

Presence and care

The Pope said he wished to dwell on two words, namely "presence" and "care," which help illuminate the Christian meaning of hospitality.

“Each of us, from the first moment of life," he pointed out, "grows within a social reality,” citing the family, the parish, the school, the university, and the workplace. Each of these, he noted, represent models of society where different psychological, juridical, moral, pedagogical, and cultural dimensions intersect, and "are spaces of identity formation whose primary task is defined precisely by presence."

“To be present in the lives of others,” Pope Leo XIV emphasized, “means sharing time, experiences, and meaning, offering stable points of reference in which others can recognize themselves and grow.”

“Looking to the Holy Family of Nazareth,” the Pope said, “every welcoming community can rediscover its own calling and learn to orient itself along the path of service.”

The experience of the Holy Family

Pope Leo suggested that the Gospel episode in which Mary and Joseph cannot find Jesus, and, in anguish, find Him again after three days in the Temple, teaches that the presence of the other is not automatic but the result of a constant search.

“It has happened to each of us,” the Pope observed, “to lose someone or something to which we were deeply attached. In that moment we realize how precious that presence was.”

The same happens in the life of faith, he said. "We often take for granted the presence of Jesus in our existence until suddenly it seems that He is no longer where we left Him."

Called to seek Jesus

“We feel a sense of loss,” the Pope said. “In reality, it is not He who has been lost, but we who have moved away.”

When this happens, Pope Leo explained, we are called to seek Him with trust and with the courage to travel unexplored paths, looking at the world with new eyes filled with hope.

“In this way,” he said, “we will stop looking for a God made to our own measure and instead encounter Him where He dwells.”

Seeking Jesus, Pope Leo XIV added, therefore means passing from the security of our convictions to the responsibility of encounter, learning to see and welcome the presence of God who is always “beyond.”

St. Joseph’s powerful example

“This is precisely what Saint Joseph did in safeguarding the family entrusted to him by the Lord,” Pope Leo said.

In Joseph, the Pope explained, we recognize that welcoming, in addition to presence, is also care.

“To care,” Pope Leo said, “means to stand beside the other with attention, to respect their choices, and to take responsibility for them.”

This attitude, he noted, belongs first of all to God, whom the Bible shows as the guardian of His people. He explained that the human family, too, is called to preserve what has been entrusted to it.

“Thus Joseph,” the Pope observed, “shows us that presence and care are inseparable dimensions: one does not safeguard without being present, and one is not truly present without assuming responsibility for the other.”

Moving toward holiness

With this sentiment, Pope Leo XIV suggested that presence and care can represent two lamps along the path toward a form of hospitality capable of opening paths to holiness.

Thanking those present for their silent and discreet commitment, the Pope encouraged them to be educators in hospitality and to continue together "to create environments capable of promoting goodness and fraternity in the Christian community and in society."

Sunday, December 28, 2025

Jubilee 2025 concludes today in particular churches, will end next Sunday at St. Peter's Basilica

 

Pilgrims making their way to St Peter's BasilicaPilgrims making their way to St Peter's Basilica  (VATICAN MEDIA Divisione Foto)

Jubilee Year concludes in particular Churches

The Holy Year concludes on Sunday, 28 December – the Feast of the Holy Family – in accordance with "Spes non confundit," the Bull of the Indiction of the 2025 Jubilee.

By Don Paweł Rytel-Andrianik

The solemn opening of the Jubilee Year in particular churches took place on Sunday, 29 December 2024. Bishops designated churches or chapels where the faithful could obtain Jubilee indulgences within the territory of their dioceses, just like those who made pilgrimages to Rome.

Pilgrims of Hope

The motto of the Jubilee 2025 Peregrinantes in Spem, “Pilgrims of Hope”.

In the Bull of Indiction of the Jubilee Year, Pope Francis expressed his desire that everyone would have hope. “In the heart of each person, hope dwells as the desire and expectation of good things to come, despite our not knowing what the future may bring.” The Pope emphasized that we often meet discouraged people who look to the future with skepticism and pessimism, as if nothing could bring them happiness. In this context, Pope Francis expressed his hope that the Jubilee would be an opportunity for everyone to rekindle their hope.

Closing of the Holy Door in the Papal Basilicas

The closing of the Holy Door in the papal basilicas of Rome is a visible sign of the last days of the Holy Year. On Christmas Day, Cardinal Rolandas Makrickas presided at the rite of closing the Holy Door of the Basilica of Saint Mary Major.

“The heart of God remains open,” emphasized the archpriest of the Liberian Basilica, who asked people to open themselves to listening to the Word, to welcoming others, and to forgiveness. Hope is a light to be translated into prayer and attention to the poor in order to be a Church “with the Gospel in our hands and our brothers and sisters in our hearts,” said Cardinal Makrickas.
 

The Holy Door at the Lateran was closed on 27 December, the feast of St John the Apostle and Evangelist. “Today, as we close the Holy Door, we raise a hymn of thanksgiving to the Father for all the signs of His love for us, while we keep in our hearts the awareness and hope that remains open to all peoples: His embrace of mercy and peace,” said Cardinal Vicar Baldassare Reina, Archpriest of the Basilica of St. John Lateran, who presided at the closing ceremony.

On Sunday, 28 December, the feast of the Holy Family, Cardinal James Harvey, Archpriest of the Basilica of St. Paul Outside the Walls, celebrated the Holy Mass with the rite of closing the Holy Door.

Epiphany 2026: The end of the Jubilee Year

Pope Leo XIV will conclude the Ordinary Jubilee by closing the Holy Door in St. Peter's Basilica in the Vatican. This will take place on 6 January 2026, the Solemnity of the Epiphany.

Announcing the closing of the Holy Door, Pope Francis expressed his hope: “may the light of Christian hope illumine every man and woman, as a message of God’s love addressed to all! And may the Church bear faithful witness to this message in every part of the world!” (Spes non confundit, 6).

Pope Leo XIV delivers Sunday Angelus on Holy Family Sunday 12.28.2025

 

Pope Leo XIV during the AngelusPope Leo XIV during the Angelus  (@Vatican Media)

Pope Leo at Angelus: Pray for peace and for families suffering due to war

During the Angelus on the Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph, Pope Leo reflects on how families can be a light in a society often marked by loneliness, despair, divisions, and conflicts.

By Isabella H. de Carvalho

On Sunday, December 28, the Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph, Pope Leo XIV called on the faithful to continue to pray for peace in the world, and especially for families that are suffering at the hands of violent conflicts.  

“In the light of the Lord's Christmas, let us continue to pray for peace. Today, in particular, let us pray for families suffering because of war, for children, the elderly, and the most vulnerable. Let us entrust ourselves together to the intercession of the Holy Family of Nazareth,” said Pope Leo XIV during the Angelus prayer in St. Peter’s Square.

Don't let success and power take out love 

In his reflection, the Pope highlighted how Christian families can be a light in the society in which we live — which is not only marked by conflitcs but also by isolation and discord — by reflecting on the Holy Family’s flight into Egypt shortly after Jesus’ birth to escape King Herod’s persecution.

“Unfortunately, the world always has its 'Herods,' its myths of success at any cost, of unscrupulous power, of empty and superficial well-being, and it often pays the price in the form of loneliness, despair, divisions and conflicts,” Pope Leo said.

“Let us not allow these mirages to suffocate the flame of love in Christian families.”

He instead invited families to cherish the values of the Gospel by praying, receiving the sacraments — especially Confession and Communion — and promoting “healthy affections, sincere dialogue, fidelity, and the simple and beautiful concreteness of everyday words and gestures.”

He called them to become a “light of hope” and “a school of love and an instrument of salvation in God’s hands.”

The presence and mission of the Holy Family

Pope Leo’s reflection was based on the Gospel of the day, taken from Matthew, in which the evangelist describes how an angel appeared to Joseph and told him to flee to Egypt, as King Herod was trying to find Baby Jesus and kill Him.

The Pope described Herod as “a cruel and bloodthirsty man” who is deeply lonely and lives in fear of being deposed.

“In his kingdom, God is performing the greatest miracle in history, in which all the ancient promises of salvation are fulfilled, but he cannot see this because he is blinded by the fear of losing his throne, riches, and privileges,” the Pope explains.

He emphasized, however, that “it is precisely this hardness of heart" that further "highlights the value of the presence and mission of the Holy Family.”

“In the despotic and greedy world represented by the tyrant, it is the birthplace and cradle of the only possible answer of salvation, that of God who, in total gratuitousness, gives Himself to men without reserve and without pretension," he said. 

The Pope also underlined how Joseph is obedient to God’s plan and in Egypt “the flame of domestic love, to which the Lord has entrusted His presence in the world, grows and gains strength in order to bring light to the whole world.”

At the end of his message Pope Leo asked the Lord, through Mary and Joseph’s intercession, to bless all the families throughout the world, so that by following Christ’s example “they may be for all an efficacious sign of His presence and His endless charity.”

Saturday, December 27, 2025

Celebrating the Feast of the Holy Family

 

Christmas: December 28th

Feast of the Holy Family


Today is the Fourth Day within the Octave of Christmas. The Feast of the Holy Family is a movable feast, assigned to the Sunday within the Octave of Christmas.

Scripture tells us practically nothing about the first years and the boyhood of the Child Jesus. All we know are the facts of the sojourn in Egypt, the return to Nazareth, and the incidents that occurred when the twelve-year-old boy accompanied his parents to Jerusalem. In her liturgy the Church hurries over this period of Christ's life with equal brevity. The general breakdown of the family, however, at the end of the past century and at the beginning of our own, prompted the popes, especially the far-sighted Leo XIII, to promote the observance of this feast with the hope that it might instill into Christian families something of the faithful love and the devoted attachment that characterize the family of Nazareth. The primary purpose of the Church in instituting and promoting this feast is to present the Holy Family as the model and exemplar of all Christian families.
—Excerpted from With Christ Through the Year, Rev. Bernard Strasser, O.S.B.

Feast of the Holy Family—Day Four
Today is the feast day of the Holy Family, but also every family's feast day, since the Holy Family is the patron and model of all Christian families. Today should be a huge family feast, since it is devoted entirely to the Holy Family as a model for the Christian family life. As Rev. Edward Sutfin states:

"The children must learn to see in their father the foster-father St. Joseph, and the Blessed Mother as the perfect model for their own mother. The lesson to be learned is both practical and theoretical, in that the children must learn how to obey and to love their parents in thought, word and action, just as Christ was obedient to Mary and Joseph. Helping mother in the kitchen and in the house work, and helping father in his odd jobs about the home thus take on a new significance by being performed in a Christ-like spirit." (True Christmas Spirit, ©1955, St. Meinrad Archabbey, Inc.)

The Holy Family
Marriage is too often conceived as the sacrament which unites a man and a woman to form a couple. In reality, marriage establishes a family, and its purpose is to increase the number of the elect, through the bodily and spiritual fecundity of the Christian spouses.

1. Every marriage intends children. Although Mary and Joseph were not united in a carnal way, their marriage is a true marriage: an indissoluble, exclusive union, wholly subordinated to the child. Mary and Joseph are united only in order to bring Jesus into the world, to protect and raise him. They have only one child, but he contains the whole of mankind, even as Isaac, an only child, fulfilled the promise made to Abraham of a countless progeny.

2. The purpose of every marriage is to establish a Christian family. The Holy Family observed the religious laws of Israel; it went in pilgrimage to Jerusalem every year with other Jewish families (Lk. 2:41). Jesus saddens and amazes his father and his mother because to their will and company he prefers "to be in his Father's house". Thus it may happen that God's will obliges the family to make disconcerting sacrifices. Yet every Christian family must live in harmony and in prayer, which are the pledges of joy and union.

3. "He remained obedient to them." Jesus was God. And through the fullness of grace Mary stood above Joseph. Nevertheless — if we except the event in the Temple — Joseph remained the head of the family; he took the initiative (as when the Holy Family fled to Egypt), and in Nazareth Jesus obeyed his parents.
—Excerpted from Bread and the Word, A.M. Roguet

Commentary on the Mass Readings for the Feast of the Holy Family, Cycle A:
The First Reading is from the Book of Sirach 3:2-6, 12-14. Although all the emphasis in these verse seems to be on the obligation of children to their parents, there is a profound lesson here for parents, too. "Like father like son" is an old and a true saying very often. If the parents fail to do what is right and just in the sight of God they can hardly complain if their children turn out disobedient to God and to them. The young learn more from example than from precept. Today, on this feast day, I would ask all parents to examine themselves and see how how they are fulfilling this grave responsibility—which God has placed on them. Are they preparing their children by word and example, especially by example, to be worthy citizens of heaven where they will be their parents' crown and glory?

The Second Reading is from the Letter of St. Paul to the Colossians 3:12-21. Ninety per cent of the first readers of St. Paul's Letter to the Colossians were pagans before their conversion. To practice the new Christian virtues was no easy task for people reared in the laxity and license of the paganism of their day. Yet they did practice these virtues and produced many saints and martyrs. Let us being in our own family circle to bring sanity back to our world. Let us have the true peace of Christ in our hearts and in our home, each one carrying out the task God has allotted to him. We shall not convert the world immediately but we shall have made a start. The world is the sum-total of its individual families.

The Gospel is from Matthew 2:13-15; 19-23. During this holy season of Christmas, Jesus Mary and Joseph should be remembered frequently by every Christian. To help us to remember them and above all to strive to imitate them, the Church has dedicated this Sunday to the memory of the Holy Family. Although they were God's closest friends, and although they were the holiest family that ever lived, or ever will live, on earth, they had more than their share of this world's troubles and cares. Today's Gospel story tells us of some of these earthly woes and sufferings. They had just settled in Bethlehem, and the Baby Jesus was only a few months old when, to avoid his murder at the hands of the murderous and jealous Herod, they had to flee from Bethlehem and become displaced persons in a foreign and pagan land.

The message of today's Gospel story is a message of encouragement and consolation for every one of us. If the Holy Family suffered such trials and hardships, surely we should be ready and willing to suffer and bear with the trials that God sends us for our own eternal welfare.
—Adapted from The Sunday Readings, by Fr. Kevin O'Sullivan, O.F.M.

Christmas Reflection: Children of God
1. In the middle of the night the Word of God descended into the homes of the Egyptians and slew every first-born among them. Israel was then freed from the Egyptian captivity. The Book of Wisdom reminds us of this marvelous delivery. "While all things were in quiet silence and the night was in the midst of her course, Thy almighty Word leapt down from heaven from the royal throne" (Wisd. 18:14 f.) and released Israel from the chains of the Egyptians from which they yearned so long to be freed. This descent of the angel among the people of Israel is a foreshadowing of the descent of the Son of God to free mankind when He comes to us at Christmas.

2. "God sent His Son, made of woman, made under the law, that He might redeem them who were under the law; that we might receive the adoption of sons" (Epistle). This is the mystery of Christmas, the mystery of the love, wisdom, justice, and mercy of God. We were slaves to the Egyptians; we served the severe taskmasters of this life: the world, the flesh, and the devil. God, looking upon our misery, sends His Son to become a slave, to assume our bondage, to purchase our freedom. Christ becomes subject to all the ills to which the human race is subject; He must be born as men are born, He must grow to manhood, He must suffer, He must die. He must be like to us in all things except sin. He is subject even to the law of Moses, since He is a Hebrew. He faithfully observes this law, which was fashioned for a sinful and stiff-necked people, and which had become for them an insufferable burden.

On this Sunday we find the Son of God, the almighty Word, with His mother and His foster father in the Temple, humbly submitting to the prescriptions of the law of Moses, as if He had been conceived in sin like His fellow men. From His submission to the law one might suppose that He, too, had been conceived in a natural way, by the desires of man and by a human father, not by the will and power of God. For Him the law was not necessary, but He submits to it joyfully and willingly. He has become a slave for us in order to free us from our bondage. Surely there has never been a more sublime example of perfect love and condescension. The Son of God descends from His royal throne and exchanges divine freedom for the chains of men in order that all men may be free. Such an act of divine condescension demands our careful contemplation.

"God sent His Son" to redeem us "that we might receive the adoption of sons." This is freedom, indeed. Not only are we freed from the bondage of sin, but we are made sons of God and share the majesty of the Son of God. "And because you are sons, God hath sent the Spirit of His Son into your hearts, crying: Abba, Father. Therefore now he is not a servant, but a son; and if a son, an heir also through God" (Epistle). But this redemption which the Son of God has wrought in us is not merely a liberation from the slavery of the world, the flesh, and the devil; it elevates us to a higher sphere and introduces us to a new life. "But as many as received Him, He gave them power to be made the sons of God, to them that believe in His name; who are born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God" (John 1:12 f.).

We are, then, the children of God. born to Him through the virginal birth of baptism, and are filled with the spirit of His life, by which we are entitled to cry out to God and call Him our Father. "Hallowed be Thy name; Thy kingdom come; Thy will be done." Thy will be done in us and through us. A redemption such as this could have been conceived only by the infinite wisdom of God and executed only through His almighty power. A new race comes into being at Christmas, a race born of the strength of the incarnate Word of God. The child who is born to us at Christmas is born under the law, but holds the scepter of omnipotence in His tiny hands.

The Gospel of the day describes the members of the family who surround the throne of the newborn King. Grouped about His throne we find the Virgin Mother and her virginal spouse, St. Joseph. There, too, is the aged Simeon, now filled with the Spirit of God and uttering his great prophecy: "Behold, this child is set for the fall and for the resurrection of many in Israel, and for a sign which shall be contradicted. And thy own soul a sword shall pierce." Nearby lingers the chaste widow, Anna, the prophetess, whose days and nights were spent in prayer and the service of God. These are the first members of the new race raised to a new life by the Spirit of God. Theirs is the new age, the age in which men will live by the Spirit of God, abounding in all good works.

3. The Incarnate Word of God became subject to the law in order to free us from the servitude of the law and to establish His sovereignty over us. Though subject to the law, He is above the law and confers upon our fallen nature a royal freedom that makes us the children of God.

With profound gratitude we cry out to Him, "The Lord hath reigned; He is clothed with beauty; the Lord is clothed with strength and hath girded Himself" (Introit). "Thou art beautiful above the sons of men; grace is poured abroad in Thy lips" (Gradual). The glory of the divine King, of the Word of God, the reflected splendor of the Father, shines in the eyes and upon the lips of the child in the manger at Bethlehem. He is our brother and our Savior, who for our sake was subject to the law of childhood and childhood's weaknesses. Yet He is the only-begotten of the Father.

The Church, the bride of the divine King, presents herself to Him as a victim. In the celebration of the Holy Eucharist, the almighty Word of God descends upon the altar (into the womb of His bride), and in Holy Communion takes up His abode in the hearts (His crib) of her children, to fulfill what was announced. He becomes subject to the law, as our sacrifice and sacrificial meal, "that He might redeem them who were under the law, that we might receive the adoption of sons." As children of His love we are privileged to address Him as our father, heart to heart. What a tremendous privilege!
—Excerpted from The Light of the World, Volume One by Benedict Baur, O.S.B.

The Holy Family: Jesus, Mary and Joseph
The devotion to the Holy Family was born in Bethlehem, together with the Baby Jesus. The shepherds went to adore the Child and, at the same time, they gave honor to His family. Later, in a similar way, the three wise men came from the East to adore and give honor to the newborn King with gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh that would be safeguarded by His family.

We can go further to affirm that in a certain sense Christ, Himself, was the first devotee of His family. He showed His devotion to His mother and foster father by submitting Himself, with infinite humility, to the duty of filial obedience towards them. This is what St Bernard of Clairvaux said in this regard, ‘God, to whom angels submit themselves and who principalities and powers obey, was subject to Mary; and not only to Mary but Joseph also for Mary’s sake [….]. God obeyed a human creature; this is humility without precedent. A human creature commands God; it is sublime beyond measure.’ (First Homily on the ‘Missus Est’).

Today’s celebration demonstrates Christ’s humility and obedience with respect to the fourth commandment, whilst also highlighting the loving care that His parents exercised in His keeping. The servant of God, Pope John Paul II, in 1989, entitled his Apostolic Exhortation, ‘Redemptoris Custos’ (Guardian of the Redeemer) which was dedicated to the person and the mission of Saint Joseph in the life of Christ and of the Church. After exactly a century, he resumed the teaching of Pope Leo XIII, for who Saint Joseph ‘ shines among all mankind by the most august dignity, since by divine will, he was the guardian of the Son of God and reputed as His father among men’ (Encyclical Quamquam Pluries [1889] n. 3). Pope Leo XIII continued, ‘...Joseph became the guardian, the administrator, and the legal defender of the divine house whose chief he was.[…] It is, then, natural and worthy that as the Blessed Joseph ministered to all the needs of the family at Nazareth and girt it about with his protection, he should now cover with the cloak of his heavenly patronage and defend the Church of Jesus Christ.’ Not many years before, blessed Pope Pius IX had proclaimed Saint Joseph, ‘Patron of the Catholic Church’ (1870).

Almost intuitively, one can recognize that the mysterious, exemplary, guardianship enacted by Joseph was conducted firstly, in a yet more intimate way, by Mary. Consequently, the liturgical feast of the Holy Family speaks to us of the fond and loving care that we must render to the Body of Christ. We can understand this in a mystical sense, as guardians of the Church, and also in the Eucharistic sense. Mary and Joseph took great care of Jesus’ physical body. Following their example, we can and must take great care of His Mystical Body, the Church, and the Eucharist which He has entrusted to us. If Mary was, in some way, ‘the first tabernacle in history’ (John Paul II Ecclesia de Eucharistia, n. 55) then we the Tabernacle in which Our Lord chose to reside in person, in His Real Presence, was also entrusted to us. We can learn from Mary and Joseph! What would they ever have overlooked in the care of Jesus’ physical body? Is there something, therefore, that we can withhold for the right and adoring care of His Eucharistic Body? No amount of attention, no sane act of love and adoring respect will ever be too much! On the contrary, our adoration and respect will always be inferior to the great gift that comes to us in the Holy Eucharist.

Looking at the Holy Family, we see the love, the protection, and the diligent care that they gave to the Redeemer. We can not fail to feel uneasiness, perhaps a shameful thought, for the times in which we have not rendered the appropriate care and attention to the Blessed Eucharist. We can only ask for forgiveness and do penance for all the sacrilegious acts and the lack of respect that are committed in front of the Blessed Eucharist. We can only ask the Lord, through the intersession of the Holy Family of Nazareth, for a greater love for their Son Incarnate, who has decided to remain here on earth with us every day until the end of time.
—From the Congregation for the Clergy

Sunday, December 29, 2024

Papal Sunday Angelus for Holy Family 12.29.2024

 

Pope at Angelus: Families, sit around the table and talk

On the Feast of the Holy Family, Pope Francis invites families to spend quality time regularly together, and suggests something as simple as sitting together at the dinner table and conversing openly and meaningfully with one another.

By Deborah Castellano Lubov

Pope Francis has reminded families to spend quality time together and suggested that sitting around the dinner table, conversing, and not looking at cell phones, is a great way to do so.

The Holy Father's exhortation fell on the Feast of the Holy Family, this Sunday after Christmas, as he addressed the faithful in St. Peter's Square during his Angelus address.

Recalling the day's celebration, the Pope remembered that the day's Gospel recounts when Jesus, at the age of twelve, at the end of the annual pilgrimage to Jerusalem, went missing from Mary and Joseph, who found Him in the Temple conversing.

"It is the experience of a family that alternates between calm moments and dramatic ones," he observed, adding that it appears "to be the story of a family crisis of our times, of a difficult teenager and two parents who are unable to understand Him."

Dialogue, the most important element for a family

The Holy Father urged those before him to take a moment to pause and "look at this family."

"Do you know why the Family of Nazareth is a model? Because it is a family that converses, that talks. Dialogue is the most important element for a family! A family that does not communicate cannot be a happy family."

In his remarks, the Holy Father spoke about the Holy Family's beautiful example for all families.

Mealtime matters

The Gospel, as the Pope noted, states that Mary and Joseph “did not grasp what He told them,” highlighting that "in a family, listening is more vital than understanding."

Noting that listening gives importance to the other and recognizing his or her right to exist and think autonomously, the Pope insisted, "Children need this."

"Mealtimes," Pope Francis said, "are a special moment for dialogue in the family. It is good to stay together around the table and to speak. This can solve many problems, and above all unite the generations..."

In a special way, he told all families to carve out moments of meaningful family time, crossing across generations, by a gesture as old as time and as simple as having meals together.

Never closed in on ourselves

Pope Francis underscored the need for all family members to speak openly with one another and listen. He noted that the Blessed Mother offers us a flawless example of making the effort to really listen to her Son.

"Never remain closed in on yourself or, even worse," Pope Francis admonished, "with your head turned to your mobile phone." "Talk, listen to each other," he insisted, saying, "This is the dialogue that is good for you and that makes you grow!"

Underscoring that the Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph is holy, Pope Francis comforted everyday families by reminding them how even Jesus' parents did not always understand Him, and called on them to reflect on this and how it happens often in our families.

Asking for the gift of listening

When it happens, the Pope said we ought to ask ourselves some questions.

"Have we listened to each other? Do we confront problems by listening to each other or do we close up in silence, resentment and pride?" finally, "Do we take a little time to converse?"

Bearing all this in mind, the Pope said, that "what we can learn from the Holy Family today is mutual listening."

Pope Francis concluded by inviting the faithful to join him in entrusting ourselves to the Virgin Mary and asking for our families the gift of listening.