Saying farewell inside prison

A couple of weeks ago I wrote about the death of an inmate.  Not just an inmate "Frank" was a faithful member of our Catholic community at Rayburn.  On June 26th "Frank" was suddenly and unexpectedly taken from us apparently from a heart attack.  News of his untimely passing stunned his brothers in the Catholic community and other offenders across the Rayburn footprint.  As I mentioned in my earlier post, the news of "Frank's" passing took me quite by surprise.

Tonight we said farewell to "Frank".  A memorial service was planned from both the volunteers who visit every Wednesday night and the Catholic inmates who knew him best.  "Frank" was a faithful Catholic who reconnected with God and His Church while inside the walls of this state prison.  When the Catholic community was struggling, without any help from the outside, "Frank" was one of about 6 inmates that kept it together.  As the ministry grew, he was always present and was our appointed proclaimer of the responsorial psalm.

Tonight, a large turnout from our Catholic community, as well as members of the Kairos ministry and others filled the chapel.  I believe we had about 75 folks present; more than twice our normal attendance.  We were also blessed to have two members of his family with us, a brother and a son.  When his son rose to explain that circumstances prevented family from visiting with "Frank" the men were keenly listening.  His son was thankful that tonight's memorial helped him see Frank in a light they were not aware of.  And he delivered an even more powerful message imploring the offenders who are estranged from family to try and reach out, to make another effort at reconciliation. 

One by one the men rose and gave testimony of "Frank's" faith and friendliness.  They all were confident in faith that "Frank" has moved on to a greater reward but they all said he will be dearly missed.

The final singing of Amazing Grace was powerful and each inmate went to the family before leaving for the routine of evening at prison.  It was a powerful night.  Love, human dignity and faith were clearly on display tonight.  I am so thankful to have been a part of the memorial service tonight and to join in prayer with each man present for the repose of the soul of our friend "Frank".